Sorry not sorry I came down so hard it's just hard knowing that you're going through such a goddamn hard time. My son is an Aquarius and him and his girlfriend been broke up for about six months and she's refusing to let him see his children it's one excuse after another he has done everything she is asked every of his family schedule she is asked every days that she's asked they have the kids met her everywhere she's asked his jump through hoops for her but now nothing is good enough but he won't file paperwork for partial custody because to do so with mean the break up of his family and he's not ready to face that. He walks around eggshells around her and the way he talks to her it's just so gross like he's begging her he just wants peace and he just wants to see his kids he doesn't want to fight with her. What you're going through a similar situation so that's what really bugs me