Has anybody ever written you a love letter? I think it's so sexy to write someone a love letter I think it's romantic and it shows that you're thinking about that person. Writing a love letter by hand shows that you're taking the time out of your day to dedicate yourself to writing a letter to begin with as letter writing it's a lost art. I think showing your partner that you care different ways helps keep your relationship alive doing special things for your partner it's so very important. Phone sex is very important as well getting surprised by a conversation on the phone that is sexually charged keeps the mood going and keeps your partners mind on you and not someone else. The minute you let your sex life go dry is the minute your marriage or relationship starts to suffer so write a letter and expose your true feelings don't write a letter to someone that's going to reject you and you know it.