I don't mean to get into your business but there's something you need to think about you need to think about your wheel or your trust which ever you have. I have a trust because it's hard to break compared to a Will but I'm sure you've been advised by the best attorneys available. We really need to remove Irina from your will I trust I'm sure you took care of her during the divorce and you too and longer married and her name she not be in anything with yours any longer. That information should be taken care of ASAP and if you to get back together then fine you can add her on again right now you too are not together and I think he would want to set up some thing for your future grandchildren or remove Irina. I know this isn't my business and he probably even hinted about it but it is something that's very important to take care of. Like I said I'm not trying to get in your business I'm just thinking of things that I had to take care of during my divorce. You have to remove her from your life insurance or anything to her name is on with you jointly that you're not legally bound to her have her name on. Just protect yourself hon I'm sure you gave her whatever she wanted basically in the divorce so now it's time to protect your future and your families future.