When I was younger I was very thin and attractive. But as I've gotten older I'm still somewhat attractive but I've gained weight that I wish I didn't have but it isn't so easy to lose weight when you get older. When I compare myself to other American women I'm not bad looking. And I'm very comfortable in my own skin and I figure if somebody's going to judge me Play my appearance then they don't give a shit about the person that I am. I think what's inside a person is more important and their outer shell and how someone treats other people is more important then a few extra pounds or a few gray hairs. I've been called that and old neither one really affect me because my self-esteem is rock solid and a lot of these women my age look like they were rode hard and put away wet. So before you judge someone harshly by their appearance give him an opportunity to show you who they really are because you may be missing out on getting to know a fabulous person.